Since min was talking about her last child syndrome....my mind keep thinking about my own syndrome la pulak....hai hai hai....oleh kerana adik beradik saya ramai and not only 3....so i think me and my other 3 eldest bro's n sis mungkin telah mengalami kecelaruan atau mungkin split identity nak berebut syndrome mana yang major kan??...hahaha....
mula2 min cakap...kalau awak loners and secretive...awak mengalami middle child syndrome....macam xpercaya jugak....min cakap pegi search...mesti ade punya.....jadi search punya search....i think this syndrome suits me most....saya rasa laaa....mungkin lepas ni saya akan percaya sket2 pada research nih...hehe
cube korang try tengok nih.....
The middle or second born child or children often have the sense of not belonging.selalunya lack of self confident They fight to receive attention from parents and others because they feel many times they are being ignored sebab parent's attention selalunya lebih untuk first and last child... or dubbed off as being the same as another sibling.selalu dibandingkan dengan abang2 n kakak2... Being in the middle a child can feel insecure. The middle child often lacks drive and looks for direction from the first born child.tend to be followers rather then leaders... Sometimes a middle child feels out of place because they are not over achievers orang tak heran dgn achievement dia sebab dah dah biasa dgn abg n kakak yg lain and like to go with the flow of things.
Being a middle child would mean they are loners kali ni min betul...heheheThey really don’t like to latch on to a person in a relationship,sebab takut dengan sense of rejection kot there fore they have trouble keeping one due to lack of interest.cepat bosan Not liking to take the limelight for anything, they are not over achievers and just simply work enough work to get by,cukup sekadar dapat hidup dengan baik and typically that goes with school as well as a career. They are however very artistic and creative. If forced to use abilities they will work well, but do not work well under pressure.cepat tension nih.... They often start several projects but rarely keep focused long enough to finish a project.mostly sebab tak tahan dgn komen2 dan kritikan parents and elders sibling*kalau dlm context family laa* The best career move for a middle child would be along the lines of using their creative. Going into a writing or journalism career,mungkinkah saya patut jadi seorang blogger tegar??hahaha and into a career that they could freely express themselves coz they need space to express their ownself would be good. Anything that would have hours that are flexible, and projects that frequently changed would be good for a middle born child. Since relationships are not of high importance ohh....sape kata??? to a middle child, often times they are alone.they are just too scared laaa!!! However, the best possible match for a middle child would be a last born.
saya ambil artikel ni dari sini....yang bold itu adalah isi yang saya highlightkan dan yang biru kecik itu adalah komen saya ok....=P
hmmm...sudah bace??...tertanya2 anda pulak bagaimane??meh2 klik link sini....
eldest child syndrome
last child syndrome
only child syndrome
ok.....jadi anda tergolong dalam sindrom mana satu??...hehe....jangan percaya sangat ok...sebab if anda ada adik beradik yang ramai....mungkin anda akan tend to be have mixed syndrome or something like that....
contohnya.....kalau anda anak kedua....tapi merupakan lelaki sulung....mungkin first child syndrome akan lebih mendominasi.....or mungkin kalau anda anak second last....mungkin last child syndrome yang lebih major.....atau mungkin juge seperti yang saya telah nyatakan tadi...mengalami kecelaruan identiti...maksudnya sindrom yang bercampur baur.....
bila dah cek....mesti la ade yang positive n negative kan....jangan sedih2 k....yang baik jadikan tauladan....yg buruk jadikan sempadan...ecehcehceh.....haha.....tak kisah la.....yang penting kita cuba jadi yang terbaik untuk diri kita dan semua orang yang sayangkan kita ok....=)
p/s: otak merapu.....
